My Thoughts... What? You wanted something fancy?
Tuesday, April 4, 2017
The Importance of Responsive Themes
Friday, February 17, 2017
Does a Small Business Need to be Online?
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Tuesday, October 9, 2012
I cannot change the winds...
Recently, I took a position as a car salesman. Admittedly, this was far from the career path that I had in mind, but it has been educational. I've learned many lessons that I never thought I would learn from a car lot and some that I could learn nowhere else. From the mundane and trivial to the essential.
Some of the things I have learned, as stated before, are not of too great value. I can back into almost any parking space. I can differentiate a Camry from a Corolla by sight almost effortlessly.
Some things have some small value to them, but only at certain times. Those times being, when you are shopping for a car. I can tell you the engine size of most of Toyota's models, along with horsepower, torque, and towing capacity. I can explain the benefits of a VVT-i transmission. I can elaborate on the Hybrid versus a regular gas engine.
Other things carry much greater weight even beyond the car lot. I have learned how important it can be to maintain a good credit history. I have learned that identity theft is still a very real thing and have seen it dash someone to pieces. I have seen how practical a good understanding of basic math can save a person, in some instances, thousands of dollars. My understanding of interest and money factors have expanded far beyond what I thought I had gained from my classes in school.
I have learned about treachery, but not from the source I expected. I have watched people, who most would consider to be "good" people, lie, back-stab, and undercut others over dollars and cents. I have seen far too many promises go unhonored. I have seen friends cheat each other. Surprisingly, I have seen this happen far more often at the hands of customers, than salespeople. All in the name of "getting a good deal."
I have learned about honesty, integrity and respect. Their value cannot be overstated. I have watched as people have tossed these aside to save a few dollars, or to earn a few more.
I have learned about communication. It is astounding how quickly a relationship can shatter because of some small information that goes unsaid, but is assumed to be understood.
However, there is one thing that surprised me to discover in a Toyota dealership. The importance of attitude. I have watched salespeople who have been successful, crumble from exhaustion and burnout. I have seen the opposite, as well. I have seen people who struggled and stretched everyday just to gain a mastery of product knowledge become great salespeople because every time they saw a new person walking onto the lot, they saw a car buyer.
Though I cannot change the winds that blast me, I can move my sails. Though I cannot stop the waves that thrash me, I stand at the helm. Though the sea may rage all around me and toss me to and fro, only I steer the ship. And I am unsinkable.
Wednesday, March 23, 2011
Thinking again
Now, I started writing this yesterday but didn't have time to finish, so I'm just getting back to it. I'm sorry if my thoughts don't seem as organized, but that will just have to be how it is.
When he finished this story, I could feel the empathy pouring out from his students. Not one of the students in my class, myself included, have breached the age of 30, and none of us have daughters who have been left by their husbands, but love transcends experience. I also imagine that many of the people that were there had at least been close to someone who had been hurt in the same manner.
I have.
He finished the story just as the class was ending, and we left with a much more somber attitude than usual. I kept reflecting on his story and just why he had shared it, as well as my own experiences. I know that my life has not been one of extreme difficulty relative to those who truly suffer, but I would not ever say that it has been easy either.
I have watched friends descend into madness. And when I say madness, I don't necessarily mean so in a psycho-pathological sense. Rather I mean so in watching them fall from standards that they had set for themselves and others. I saw some who openly scorn activities that they saw those close to them perform fall into the same practices. Some examples include drinking to excess, sexual promiscuity, actively attacking what others believe, and others that I won't continue to list here.
I have seen some who have done the opposite. Rising above the activities that shamed them and escaping. The trail is often arduous, but of those that I have seen that were able to conquer these vices I have watched as their misery became joy and their shame faded. These people amaze me.
I'll admit that I've had a lot of trouble forgiving people, and not just those that have directly attacked me, but those that have influenced my friends to choose poorly. I feel like I've actually had more trouble with the latter. But the chance to listen to my professor the other day really helped me. As I heard him talk about how difficult this was for his daughter and for himself, and to see the real effort that he's been putting into letting go of what this son of God did to his daughter, it has helped me let go of what others have done to my friends.
Admittedly, this has not been easy for me. I have been dedicating more of my prayers to letting go of things that I know I had no control over and no influence on, but that have still affected me. I tried indifference at first, but I was incapable of that. I tried to just ignore it, but I could not. I got angry, and that did nothing but to agitate the situation. I tried joking about it, but that felt hollow. I've found that the only way I've been able to deal with this is through real forgiveness. I know I'm not done, as at this moment the wrong thought can still bring a spike to my pulse and blood into my arms, but I am progressing.
I am striving to understand that God loves those people who have hurt me, and that he understands where they are coming from and why they did what they did. Not gonna lie though. odds are that I'll never like these people. I'm still at the point where I wish that I could just punch them hard enough to wipe out their influence, as nonsensical as that may sound.
I wish that I could say that that last sentence was not true, but I will not lie about this. Forgiveness is powerful, but strenuous and I am reaching for it as quickly as I can. I am seeking to understand that the Atonement can reach these people and that someday they'll stand before the judgment bar and know just as everyone else will know that Jesus is the Christ. This is hard for me to imagine as it is so distant, but when I try to make it salient and real now, it has made it easier for me to deal with people here and now.
In the end, I'm not sure why I decided to write this post at all, and I'm not even sure if I'm glad that I did. But here it is, and now it's yours.
Wednesday, November 17, 2010
In Amintire

O, Blaze, imi vin greu cuvintele pe care vreau sa le scriu aici. Acum, cincisprezece ani, ne-am intalnit. Te tineau in bratele mele si la moment inca nu ti-ai deschis ochii. Dar, la acel moment, i-ai deschis stand in bratele mele, si eu eram prima persoana pe care ai vazut-o in viata si de atunci stiam c-aveai sa faci o parte in familia noastra.
Sase saptamani mai tarziu, stateai in spatele masinii noastre si veneai acasa cu noi. Ce minune a fost. In prima seara, ti-era frica. Tin minte foarte bine, fiindca te vaitai si nu stiai unde sa te duci. Dar noi te iubeam de la inceput.
Erai peste tot. Si cu timp, mancai tot ceea ce vedeai. Legos, baloane, chiar si banii lui Ben.
Cand erai mic, iti placea zapada! Am face bulgari de zapada si fugeai dupe ele incercand sa le prinzi! Ce bucurie am vazut in ochii tai fugand.
Am avut vecini care au avut si ei caini cu care ai avut multe batalii prin gardul nostru. Si stii bine ca ai castigat de fiecare data. Erau mici, n-aveau nici o sansa.
Cand ne-am mutat, stateam pe podeaua noastra si era o musca care te urma. Te-ai suparat si cu o singura laba, ai ucis-o si a cazut mort. Ce m-ai minunat.
Ne jucam, mai ales cu lanterna noastra care te confundea intotdeauna. Vroiai cu tot sufletul tau sa prinzi lumina! Ce mult am ras.
Esti fratiorul meu cel mai mic. Ai fost, si vei fi in continuare preferatul meu frate cu patru picioare. Te-am iubit, te iubesc, te vei iubi in continuare. Vazundu-te azi era greu. Am plans, si n-am mai plans de peste 4 ani. Dar stiu unde esti, si cu cine esti, si asta ma consoleaza.
Pana ce ne vom mai vedea, fratiorule. S-odihnesti in pace. Domnul sa te aiba-n grija sa.
Monday, October 11, 2010
Me, according to urbandictionary
A handsome gentleman with a charming smile. Has the greatest respect for life and people, especially women. A great sense of humor, easy going and modest. An even greater sense of adventure. But has been known to fall to grips of an adrenaline lust, often risking himself for a thrill seek.
A person that believes in all people, until they have proven otherwise, and even then might still believe in you. His mind is amazing, slightly insane but pure genius, the only force stronger is his heart. To be loved by him, is to be… Truly... Loved.
Loves a challenge, but often doesn't often accept the reward. Gives his heart and soul to the people he cares for. He is either on top of the world smiling ear to ear or underneath it trying to lift still offering an occasional smirk.